Finding true love may be a difficult road; some zodiac signs look to grab romantic happiness so easily, whereas other people face ongoing challenges with relationships. Astrological influences infuse people with personality traits, emotional dispositions, and ways of managing their romantic relationships. Some will be unlucky in love despite their efforts, either because of their innate features or life events.
Here are the five most difficult zodiac signs for long-term relationships.
1. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Element: Water
Ruling Planet: The Moon
Cancers need plenty of security and stability in relationships because they are emotionally unstable. They are great providers, protecting and nurturing their spouse so that their significant other always feels loved and secure with them. However, this extreme emotional sensitivity sometimes brings bad luck at love. They are easy to get hurt, as well as hard to trust again after being disappointed. They can over-rely on the lover, causing imbalance in relationships.
- Why They Are LUCKIEST In Love: The emotional sensitivity of cancers makes them the most prone to heartbreak. A controlling or over-demanding partner may find his needs for reassurance and emotional intimacy too excessive, thus constantly causing frequent misunderstandings or unrequited feelings. He will tend to cling to past hurts than to indulge in a new relationship.
- How they can improve : In an effort to achieve better love luck, cancers have to strengthen their self-esteem and establish emotional boundaries precisely. By taking time to heal through wounds of the past as well as attaining a healthy balance between providing and receiving affection, they can boost their chances for an even more stable and joyful relationship.
2. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Element: Earth
Ruling Planet: Mercury
Virgos are analytical, methodical, and detail-oriented and would mostly regard love in a similar way they perceive the other things of life. They make very good friends and give their partners loads of attention; however, the finest thing about the natures of Virgos in this respect is that bad luck comes to them largely in matters of love. Virgos set the standards way too high for themselves and their partners, thus making a relationship with them quite frustrating. They tend to be very critical, and this might be the reason that will lead to a fight between the person who feels he or she is never going to meet Virgo’s standards.
- Why They Feel Unlucky In Love: Virgos are prone to overthinking and analyzing everything that goes on in a relationship, keeping them puzzled about themselves or even their partner’s intentions. Their tendency to overanalyze prevents them from relaxing enough to let love happen as it is meant to. Their sense of perfection may also strip them of available relationships since they become too obsessed with seeking that “ideal partner.”
- How they can improve: Virgos can enhance their love luck by learning to let go of their need for control and accept their flaws. Instead of striving for perfection, they should focus on enjoying their partner’s distinct features. Being more forgiving and patient in love can allow Virgos to form stronger emotional connections and have longer-lasting relationships.
3. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Element: Air
Ruling Planet: Venus
Libras appear by their very nature to be romantic. They are under the planet of love, Venus. However, their need for balance and harmony works against them sometimes in terms of love also. Libras often encounter a problem in making decisions, even about relationships. They may stick around in bad relationships because they fear conflict. Or they may constantly be jumping from relationship to relationship as they seek that perfect partner, never really being committed.
- Why They Are Unfortunate In Love: At times, the indecisiveness of Libras wastes opportunities or settles for less than they deserve to be given. They tend to have every wish of other people ahead of theirs and end up unhappy because of that. What is more, Libras are easily affected by what is going around them, making it hard for them to fully settle with just one person.
- How They Can Improve: To improve her love life, she would have to demonstrate to the world that she is decisive and faithful to her own desires. Libras may have to learn not to be selfish and to set firm boundaries so as not to cave in to their every fear of disagreement, so finding a more balanced and rewarding relationship.
4. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Element: Fire
Ruling Planet: Jupiter
The Sagittarius sign is noted for its adventurous attitude and love of independence. While these characteristics make them interesting and entertaining to be around, they can also make them unlucky in love. Sagittarians frequently struggle with commitment because they cherish independence and freedom above everything else. Their desire for perpetual change and new experiences can make it tough for them to commit to one spouse.
- Why They Feel Unlucky In Love: The fear of being tied down may deter Sagittarians from meaningful partnerships or even their realization at times, and thus a split early on when things are potentially getting deeper and longer. They may feel stuck or restless in long-term relationships so prompt to leave, thus missing very real and deep connections.
- How they can improve: Sagittarians need to find a balance between the necessary need for adventure and the stability that these partnerships may bring. Thus, they will also have the chance to develop a healthier and more fulfilling relationship with a spouse as they commit and nurture emotional intimacy without being bound tight in some stiff relationship.
5. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Element: Air
Ruling Planet: Uranus
Aquarians are intellectual, independent, and inventive. They usually care more about the ideas, causes, and progress of society than old-fashioned romanticism. Aquarians tend to approach relationships in a logical manner, and they might sometimes have difficulty relating emotionally. That disconnection can cause people to seem somewhat cold-blooded or callous in love affairs, thereby causing problems with love.
- Why They Feel Unlucky In Love: This emotional detachment and the desire to be more or completely free of personal space leads to problems in partnerships as regards to the Aquarians. They usually find it difficult to open up to their partners, hence an emotional detachment as a result.This will also make it difficult for one to find a spouse who really understands them and complements them entirely.
- How they can get better: Aquarians can improve their love by paying more attention to emotional attachment and new methods of intimate communication. It is necessary for independence, but combining this with emotions can make one’s ties closer and the love more lasting.
Conclusion
Love can be a tough road, and some of the zodiac signs, like Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, and Aquarius, too need to try harder only to find love or even just to keep them in love. But it’s mainly because these signs are usually unhappy about the life of love; this is because of emotional sensitivity, being too specific, indecisiveness, unwillingness to commit, or simply just feeling detached emotionally. However, if they can find where they are wrong and continue to work on those places, they will reverse the misery and have good loving relationships in the future.